Actor and singer Tyrese Gibson recently shared a raw and emotional reflection on his past marriage, revealing how his love and trust were exploited. In an interview, Tyrese opened up about his divorce and the painful financial and emotional toll it took on him.
A Painful Marriage and Divorce
Tyrese described his former marriage as a “business transaction,” where his ex-wife took 50% of his lifetime savings after their divorce. He expressed his disillusionment with the situation, saying that while he gave everything, his ex-wife had little to lose, as all her properties and money were not in her name.
“She saw marriage as a business, she got married to me for a few years, divorced, and took 50% of my lifetime savings. All her own money and properties were not in her name.”
For Tyrese, the experience was a harsh lesson in love and finances, with the outcome leaving him financially strained and emotionally broken.
Advice from 50 Cent and a New Beginning
During his lowest point, Tyrese received advice from none other than 50 Cent, who had previously warned him about the realities of deep love in today’s world.
“50 Cent warned me, he told me that if you are someone that loves so deep, then this generation is not for you, but I didn’t listen.”
When Tyrese’s marriage ended and he was left emotionally and financially drained, 50 Cent stood by him, offering him a role in his hit series Power. Tyrese credits this gesture as the turning point that helped him get back on his feet and continue pursuing his career.
“When she asked for divorce and took everything, 50 Cent still didn’t leave me. He still offered me a role in his movie Power. That’s how I bounced back and started hustling again.”
The Importance of Men Speaking Up
Tyrese also touched on a powerful topic—the stigma surrounding men expressing their emotions. He revealed that, despite the hardship, he allowed himself to cry and express his pain, something society often discourages men from doing.
“Sadly, no one cares how you feel as a man, but I told myself that I’ll not act tough. I had to cry. Men need to start speaking up too. The society needs to know men cry too and get hurt.”
His words have resonated with many, emphasizing the importance of emotional vulnerability and breaking down societal expectations that men must always remain stoic.
A Lesson in Love and Wisdom
In hindsight, Tyrese encourages others to be cautious when it comes to love, advising them to approach relationships with their heads as well as their hearts.
“When loving, use your head.”
Tyrese’s journey through heartbreak, personal loss, and recovery serves as a reminder that men, just like women, deserve the space to process pain, express their feelings, and seek support when needed. His message of emotional honesty is an important one that urges society to rethink how we view vulnerability, especially in men. 💔
